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I learned the hard way by *Arcalian:iconArcalian:



The person who originally said "Better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all."  Was either a liar, or a complete idiot.

Over and over again we put ourselves out there.  And over and over again we get burned.

When will we learn?

When Will We Learn!?

Every time, our hearts are stomped on.

Every time, the feeling fades.

Every time, our dreams are broken and taken away.

Yet still we put ourselves out there, over and over.

For what?

Affirmation?

Acceptance?

The hope that this time it will be right?!?

It never will be

It NEVER will be.

Men, women, straight, gay, bi, all of you, listen to me:

STOP.

It never works.

It NEVER works.

It always leads to heartbreak in the end.

ALWAYS.

Those couples that stayed together all those years?  They did it to keep up appearances or "for the sake of the children."  They spend those twilight years hating each other or ignoring each other.

Never love.

You will always lose.

Always.
©2007-2009 *Arcalian
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My experience of relationships.

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:icontartitan:
Great! You made me think about somethings that I need to do!

Your job works for me!

Thanks.
:icon1337m457312:
thanks...that's encouraging.
so we should never stay together in relationhsips? what about the couples who aren't married and don't have kids that are together for YEARS?

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Watch your thoughts, they become words. Your words=actions, your actions=habit. Your habits=character. Character-Destiny. While you're at it, watch me! [link]
:icon1337m457312:
thanks...that's encouraging.
so we should never stay together in relationhsips? what about the couples who aren't married and don't have kids that are together for YEARS?

--
Watch your thoughts, they become words. Your words=actions, your actions=habit. Your habits=character. Character-Destiny. While you're at it, watch me! [link]
:icon1337m457312:
thanks...that's encouraging.
so we should never stay together in relationhsips? what about the couples who aren't married and don't have kids that are together for YEARS?

--
Watch your thoughts, they become words. Your words=actions, your actions=habit. Your habits=character. Character-Destiny. While you're at it, watch me! [link]
:icon1337m457312:
thanks...that's encouraging.
so we should never stay together in relationhsips? what about the couples who aren't married and don't have kids that are together for YEARS?

--
Watch your thoughts, they become words. Your words=actions, your actions=habit. Your habits=character. Character-Destiny. While you're at it, watch me! [link]
:iconarcalian:
Encouraging, no. Realistic, yes.

If you want to keep trying, I wish you the best of luck. Honestly, I do.
:icon1337m457312:
I'm gonna keep trying ecause in the course of my life as it is, i have found that I cannot 'hate' people, and i'm truly happy when people love me and i can love them. however, i'm also thinking of those close two or three friends you have for a long time, because I'm blessed with quite a few of them

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Watch your thoughts, they become words. Your words=actions, your actions=habit. Your habits=character. Character-Destiny. While you're at it, watch me! [link]
:iconarcalian:
Oh, I wouldn't suggest hatred. Hatred's even worse than love; with love at least there's happiness for a while before you get burned. Hate burns from the word go.
:icon1337m457312:
and hate burns you too, not only the people you're hating. but then, if you say love at least gives you happyness, then why would you warn against it? my friend james once said "the higher the highs, the lower the lows, then the next time the high's even higher" like a drug, but better. it's happy and sad, like life...you need love in your life, like art.

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Watch your thoughts, they become words. Your words=actions, your actions=habit. Your habits=character. Character-Destiny. While you're at it, watch me! [link]

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